Texting that cute girl you just met can seem like an intimidating
process. The good news is, it isn't impossible to get that spark between
you going again. But the tough part is: actually taking out your phone
and texting her!
While it can be a challenge to seduce women via
text, it doesn't have to be. In many ways it can actually be easier. You
have words in your favor as well as the leisure of figuring out what
you will say next.
Text messages can be a powerful way of
garnering her interest and getting her to be attracted to you. Here are 3
steps on how to seduce her through text.
1) Start by getting her attention
Women
often get inundated with men sending them texts and emails and phone
calls trying to get into bed with her. Imagine her coming in from being
out all night, taking her dress off, and getting into bed. What's the
first thing she sees? Her cell phone, blowing up with all the messages
from guys she has just met. This means you have competition.
So you have to do something to get her attention. Something to make yourself stand out from all the other men texting her.
Start
by playing it safe. Depending on how close you got with her during your
face to face interaction, before she gave her number to you, you should
talk to her about something during that conversation.
Try not to
overthink it too much; just leave it open with a simple "Hey, what are
you up to, young miss?" and you can add a smiley emoticon if you like.
Then you wait for her response. If she's busy she'll let you know or
text you back when she has a chance. You can also try a message that
shows you were really paying attention and listening to her.
Such as: "Hi Jane, how did your shopping trip go? Did you find something you liked?"
After she responds send her a flirty playful message
back, something like, "Oh, nice dress. You can wear that when we go out
for drinks." The point is to show you are paying attention, keeping the
conversation flirtatious and fun.
2) Short and sweet
You
should make sure to make your messages short and to the point. Don't
send her huge sappy or needy messages. That will turn her off. Just
simple, attention-getting, short and interesting texts.
Be sure to
adjust to the style of her writing. If she gives you two or three word
responses, you should be replying in kind - not sending her four screens
of text in your reply.
3) Make her laugh
If
you do nothing else, try to get a few laughs out of her. You would be
shocked at how important a sense of humor is for women to be attracted
to a guy. If she thinks you're funny, she will be a lot more attracted
to her.
Some funny texts to send:
1) "Just came from the bookstore. You won't believe what I just saw. It made me think of you... "
2) "Today I'm about 5% more awesome than I was yesterday. What's your daily level of awesome?"
3) "I just flew by private UFO and saw your twin sister - or was it a clone? Do you know anything about this?"
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