I'm not kidding. Think about it.
What did you come up with?
To most men, the words "Sexual Tension" are a MYSTERY.
They just don't make sense.
Or if they DO make sense, they make sense in a way that DOESN'T make sense. Make sense?
In other words, some guys think that the words Sexual Tension mean "negative anxiety about sex" or something equally unhelpful.
But if you go ask a group of WOMEN what the words mean, you'll get a MUCH different answer.
Women know what Sexual Tension is.
To a woman, Sexual Tension is the feeling that she feels during those times when she is interacting with a man that she feels ATTRACTION for... but she doesn't know exactly what's going to happen.
Maybe she can't tell if he's into her, but the conversation is so good that something MUST be happening...
Maybe he's making her laugh a little bit "too much", and she's unable to control her feelings towards him...
Or maybe it's obvious that he's interested, but he's so in control of himself and the situation that he's not blatantly "making a move"... and she's on the edge of her seat waiting to know what's going to happen.
These are all possible examples of Sexual Tension.
Now, just because one of these situations is happening doesn't mean that Sexual Tension is present.
But these are the types of situations where it is MOST LIKELY to be present.
With that, let me see if I can take you behind the scenes, and give you a different perspective.
Men and women have some BIG differences when it comes to ATTRACTION.
Men have their "attraction mechanisms" triggered by much different things than women.
For women, things usually begin with a small spark.
Eye contact for a little too long.
A Cocky & Funny comment.
A teasing remark.
It can be anything.
The point is that SOMETHING SPARKS the ATTRACTION.
Then it GROWS over time.
It doesn't have to be a lot of time, but it does usually require time.
It might take an evening, or it might take a date or two... but if a man does all the right things he can AMPLIFY one these little sparks of attraction into a powerful emotional feeling for a woman... that is too much for her to resist.
Of course, as we both know, a man can usually feel a sexual attraction to a woman INSTANTLY.
I'm sure you've had a woman smile at you and BOY-OY-OY-OY-ING.
SCHWING.
AWWWWW YAYAHHHHH.
What's worse, we totally don't get how things work for women.
So we tend to do all the WRONG things.
And when we do all the WRONG things, women don't even get the little sparks that can grow into full-blown ATTRACTION.
How to Create Sexual Tension In a Woman
So here are a few ideas for "sparking" that initial tension that I'm talking about...1) Tease.
If you want to INSTANTLY change the way a hot, stuck-up woman is behaving, TEASE HER about something.
Now, not all beautiful women are stuck up.
Duh.
But teasing works PARTICULARLY well when a woman IS stuck up... lol.
Maybe it's her big purse.
Or her tall shoes.
Or her "runway model" walk.
Whatever.
Just tease her.
Say "Hey, what's with the big purse? You're not one of those women with a live dog named 'Precious' in there, along with organic vegan high-protein treats for when she's in the mood to be pampered, are you?"
It doesn't matter.
Just say something to tease her.
Oh, and it's usually better if you can do this with a STRAIGHT FACE. This creates even MORE tension.
If you MUST smile, make sure it's the "I'm only smiling because I know that you can't believe how confident I am that you love me" kind.
2) Eye Contact
When a man and a woman make eye contact for the FIRST TIME, it's USUALLY the man who looks away first.
Men are WUSSIES when it comes to doing things that say "I'm a strong, confident person".
Looking away when you make eye contact with a woman is one of those things. BIG TIME.
Instead, if you HOLD the eye contact until SHE looks away (and you don't fidget or twitch like you've got some strange bug crawling up your shirt), it will send a strong signal.
Oh, and it has a good chance of "sparking" this attraction that we're talking about.
3) Roll Play
Often an opportunity will come up when you're meeting a woman to instantly shift into a "roll play".
Maybe she mentions that she's getting a new job. Tell her that you sure hope it pays well, because she's going to have to support both of you...
And then tell her that you hope she has enough energy to cook at night after work, because you need a wife who can bring home the bacon, AND fry it up in a pan...
Then tell her that something she just said screwed it all up for you, and that you're probably going to wind up divorcing her a week after you get married... and taking half of HER money.
Roll-playing is fun, and if it's done right it can REALLY spark this tension that we're talking about.
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