The Un-Romantic Partner's Guide to Planning Romantic Getaways

Romantic getaways are the stuff of cheap romance novels, promising passion, desire, and an over-abundance of muscles from the protagonist. Either way, these types of quick trips out-of-town can be tough on the person that just isn't a romantic person at all. Sure, they love their partner, but they just aren't the most suave person in the world.
When you decide to turn up the romance factor with your special someone, you're really trying to avoid a minefield of bad planning. Just remember that as long as you take the time to understand what your significant other finds important, you'll be fine.
You need to understand that the notion of romance is a personal touch. When finding the right romantic place to run off to, think about the destination. Are you interested in mountains? Forests? Maybe you're both incognito beach bums? Either way, immerse yourself with your special someone, and make it all about the both of you.
To this end, you should know whether your partner is more interested in a low-key affair. Just because you jet off to a new place, you don't have to live a jet-setting lifestyle. Sometimes a simple bed and breakfast outside a major metropolitan area (i.e., Fredericksburg, TX instead of Austin, TX) can be the right setting for enjoying a good night's sleep & a relaxing cup of coffee in rural bliss.
Don't be afraid of excitement, though. Romance is sometimes about the thrill, but certainly you can still keep the thrill a little more mild than one would think. Maybe you can go to a concert for a band that plays 'your song'. Perhaps you've both wanted to check out a famous food festival but have never thought of the right occasion to do so.
Of course, it never hurts to think a bit more rustic in terms of your adventure. You may lead a prim little life with ironed clothing and starched collars. Why not make the romance factor grown by putting on some jeans & packing some sleeping bags? Think about taking a trip to a state/national park or camping area. Spending time with your special someone can only be made even more special by spending a night under the stars by the gentle roar of a campfire. S'mores are optional.
Finally, though it may be a little controversial, why not think in terms of a "stay-cation"? The term "stay-cation" has been thrown around a bit, and it's mostly due to people wanting to save money. But when you think about it, how much of your own backyard have you explored together? Throw in a fancy hotel, a killer meal, and a reason to dress up, and you've got the makings of the ultimate romantic hat-trick!

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